Wednesday, October 24, 2012

October 24, Wednesday (The Longest Blog)

Ten days till we head home. We have a lot left to do. "Slava boga" (Praise God!) is the cry of the Christians here. We praise him for what we have been able to witness and accomplish so far. Let me tell you about four encounters today:

10:30 AM on the train to Vladivostok. Steve and I are talking about everything under the sun. A young woman is sitting next to him. Finally I ask her, "Do you speak English?" "So, so" is the reply. Tamila Gasanova is a 22 year-old travel agent from Uganay. She is a Christian (2 years) and attends a Baptist church in Vlad. She was on her way to the port in Vlad to take a three day cruise to Seoul, South Korea. We learned that Tamila lives with her mom and twin sister Camila. She lives in a high rise somewhere near the Pavlenkos (our hosts). Steve began to show her a book on Daniel which she had already read on line. Steve gave it to her as a keepsake. We traded my blog site for her phone number. We hope to see her with Alexi before we leave.

12:15 PM Republic Restaurant. We eat lunch with Valeira (sp?), a 31 year-old father of three (ages 2, 7, and 8). He had asked Sunday at church if he could catch lunch with Steve and me. He attends the church in Uganay. He works downtown as a self-employed tutor for high school students in music, mathematics, and physics. He lives with his wife, children, and brother in a two room flat in Vlad. His brother works as an electrician, but does not speak at work or at home. Put your self in Valeira's shoes. Privacy in his marriage is a huge issue. Time is an issue: tonight he will finish his last tutoring session at 10:00 PM and return home in the dark to his family in their shared apartment. We finished our lunch by Steve praying for Valeira, his family, enough work for a separate place, and for assurance for his salvation.

1:45 PM. Another Republic Restaurant. I am studying for my Bible school lecture tonight on the person of Christ (already completed). An Uzbekistan bus boy talks to me as I get a refill of my 15 ruble "chai." I motion him over to my table. His name for me is "Mr." :) He hopes to become a Russian citizen in January. He desires to move to the U.S. We trade names, email, phone numbers, and hope. His name is Farkhad Sadulloev. He is 23 years of age. Later his boss pulls him away as he tries to sneak another minute to talk with me. Contact, connect, conversation, relationship, and technology all create opportunities for the Gospel. I promise to call him (on Alexi's phone) and further the contact I've made. Who knows how God may break into Farkhad's life?

3:30 PM. Same Republic Restaurant. I have been studying since about 1:30 for my lecture, except for a few minutes speaking with Farkhad (above). The lunch crowd slowly clears out of the restaurant; I am left with two young girls (they look 12 or 13) in my section. I needed to use the restroom, so I went over and placed a 10 ruble bill on their table, pointed to my stuff on mine, and asked them to watch out for it while I went to the toilet. When I returned they excitedly came to my table, returned the 10 rubles and asked, "Where are you from?" Their smiles communicated that they were happy to meet an American. I explained that I lived in the S.E. United States (comparing Atlanta to Vlad). I introduced myself, gave them my blog name, described my family (4 children - to which they were like "Four?" with a wide-eyed expression), and explained why we were in Vladivostok. They had already asked the big "Why?" question.

Then they introduced themselves to me - Anna and Marsha (both 12), best 7th grade friends who go to different schools but live close to one another in Vlad. They both live with their fathers and mothers. I reminded them that they were very blessed to live with both their parents, as Russia has an 80% divorce rate. I also encouraged them to visit America. I assured them they could stay with us if they could only get to the States. They smiled with pleasure. :) I offered my email address. Marsha said, "Skype?" I indicated I would have to email the Skype information to her. As we were finishing our conversation I said I regretted not having my camera with me. Instantly one of them grabbed her IPhone - we promptly had two pictures - Mark and Anna, Mark and Marsha. They got right next to me as though I were their father. Too cute. They promised to email me the pictures, for which I clearly said "Spaseebah" or thank you. I made sure they promised me they would tell their parents about the strange American man whom they befriended in the Republic Restaurant. I, in turn, promised to tell their story on this blog. These are young ladies that would fill any parent's heart with gratitude and pride.

 An age of unprecedented technology opens doors for cross-cultural communication with young, post-Perestroika Russians. And open doors of communication are open doors for Gospel communication. My prayer: God give us the spirit of friendship to wisely enter doors you have opened for your Gospel. Help us be faithful to Your mission. In Christ, amen.


3 comments:

  1. Wow Brother, you've made sooo many contacts over there already!! All that despite being so introverted and quiet like your siblings!!! :) We sure are missing you at home and long to see you in person. We are always remembering you in prayer and petitioning for a fruitful time. Thank God you are feeling well and able to take advantage of your time.
    Cheryl is holding down your fort well, including aeration of the lawn, impressive! We had a lovely evening with Kristen the other night...what a joy! Tonight is the last congregational mtg. at GBC...praying for unity and glory to God.
    Hope you're staying warm enough, eating well, etc....oh, greetings to Steve too.
    Well, need to run...love you tons and can't wait to talk face to face!
    Your adoring Younger Sister,
    Ellen

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  2. Hi Mark,

    Sorry I've missed a few days on the blog. One thing and another...

    Hey, what a restaurant ministry you have! Keep eating, brother. Keep putting down the chai. You never know who walk in and be a prime candidate for some Gospel. Maybe the owners should put "The Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ" on the menu and point to you whenever anyone asks about it. What a blessing to connect with people like that...so unplanned and "off-the-cuff." I shared with a Burmese waitress yesterday at the Thai restaurant that Rafael Tejera and I met at for discipleship. I asked her if she knew what happened in her country 200 years ago. She was pretty much stunned by the question. I proceeded to tell her how God sent a man named Adoniram Judsen there to teach the people of His Son, Jesus, and of His salvation. She had this amazed look that I would know of her country like that. Hey...restaurant evangelism.

    As Ellen said, we miss you here, but we rejoice in the good and faithful work you are doing there. We'll pray together for you guys tonight. By the way, we're having tacos for snack supper tonight. Any good Mexican restaurants there in Vlad? If so, that's where I would set up my cafe pulpit.

    Love you, bro.

    Bob Selph

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  3. Dad,

    I am so excited to hear of all the contacts and friendships you are building! Amazing! We had Amy and Clau for dinner last night, and we were commenting on how gifted you are for this role. You are such a great encourager...people in Argentina still talk of you and remember the way you embraced them. You really do have the gift of, "I see you, and you matter to me..." (Jeff Myers was challenging us as at recent education conference to love our students this way.) Keep persevering! Love you!

    Kristen

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